The work
Private coaching
A Conversation Worth Having.
Private work with Coach Che for individuals who want to examine love, identity, relationship patterns and the beliefs underneath them, with someone who will be honest with you.
What the work is
What the work is
Private coaching is a series of structured conversations. It draws on reflective inquiry, mindfulness-informed practice and Che’s twenty years of coaching and teaching. It is not therapy, and it is not advice-giving.
Sessions tend to move between the practical and the philosophical: a conversation you are avoiding, a pattern you keep repeating, an inheritance you are still carrying, a decision you keep postponing.
Che works with attention to culture, family expectation and the body, the places where relationship patterns are usually stored.
Who it may suit
Who it may suit
People at a threshold: a relationship ending or beginning, a move, a bereavement, a professional change, a decade that has asked different questions of them.
People who are competent in public and less honest in private, and who would like a room where they do not have to perform.
People who have done therapy and want something adjacent: reflective, philosophical, practical, and willing to talk about love directly.
Format
Format
Individual sessions are held online, typically 60 minutes, arranged in a short series rather than as an open-ended commitment.
A limited number of small-group or paired sessions are available by arrangement for couples, business partners or siblings working through a shared question. These are considered case by case.
Che is based in Oakville, Ontario. In-person sessions may be possible locally by arrangement; nothing is confirmed until it is agreed in writing.
Fees
Fees
Packages and fees are discussed after an initial conversation, and confirmed in writing before anything begins. They are not published here because they depend on the shape of the work.
If cost is the barrier, say so in your inquiry. Che keeps a small number of reduced-fee places each season.
What happens next
“You do not need to arrive with the right words. You need to arrive willing to look.”
Che reads every inquiry personally.
If it seems like a fit, you will be offered a short introductory conversation, with no fee and no obligation.
If it is not a fit, you will be told plainly, and where possible pointed somewhere better.
Begin a conversation
Write first. Decide after.
There is no application form and no funnel. One short message is enough: what is going on, and what you would like to understand better.
Che reads every inquiry personally. You will hear back within two business days. If it is not a fit, you will be told plainly.
Prefer email? Write to che@chemarvillepodcast.com.
The Letter
The Letter
Stay in the conversation.
One essay, one question and one conversation from Che, sent twice a month. No funnel, no countdowns. Just the thinking behind the work, and first word when a live experience opens.
- A short essay on love, consciousness or relationship.
- A question worth sitting with before the next letter.
- Occasional notes on what is being read, taught and recorded.